Opinions on training for competition, such as sport Jujitsu or Mixed Martial Arts, versus training for real-world conflict fall over a wide spectrum. On one end is a crowd that advocates “If it won’t work in the cage, it won’t work anywhere,” and at the other extreme is an equally large group insisting “There are no rules on the street.” The two sides stand there snarling, each assured of its superiority. This is a shame, because both camps can benefit greatly from lessons learned on the other side.
If that picture seems ugly, we can take some comfort in the fact that most of us fall somewhere in the middle: competitors wondering how well their skills will translate to conflict outside the ring, and unarmed self-defense specialists wondering if their methods can stand up to a trained fighter. In order to bridge this gap and develop well-rounded warriors, we first need to understand the differences in the two arenas and the ways they have been approached.
Since there are several types of competition, I’ll primarily focus on differences between methods used in Mixed Martial Arts and reality-based training. While there is wide variance in how both are addressed by different coaches and trainers, I think the biggest differences can be summed up in the following three areas: odds, setting, and emotions. Bear these differences in mind and you’ll learn how to get the most from your training.
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| While competition takes place on a level and well-lighted platform, real-world conflict often occurs in low-light settings with uneven terrain. Photo: Author |
In an MMA match, great pains are taken to keep the two combatants on as level a playing field as possible. Weight classes, experience levels and gender separation are all used to get the best fights possible. Even the equipment of the two fighters is nearly identical. This is all in the promotion’s best interest: fans love a knockout, but they love it more ten seconds from the last bell than ten seconds after the first.
Since a fighter knows all else is designed to be equal, he builds the advantages that he can. Physical fitness becomes a way of life, almost an arms race between the combatants to be fitter and stronger than the other. Additionally, a fighter will train his technique every day, often year round. He knows what he can make work, and what to do next if it doesn’t work.
In real-world conflict, the odds are almost never even. If you find yourself on the receiving end of an unprovoked attack, it is often because your attacker perceives that you are at a disadvantage. They will be larger, stronger, better armed or greater in number as a rule, and sometimes a combination thereof.
Persons training for realistic unarmed self-defense will work on techniques that can address multiple opponents and also incorporate armed attackers. The scope of the potential threats is so broad that not all can be addressed, and techniques are often not practiced at full speed or full force due to increased risk of injury. It is also much easier to fall into the “what if” trap than in training for competition.
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| In real-world attacks, your opponents will often be larger, stronger, better armed or greater in number. No matter how confident you are, a clean escape is often the best option. |
If faced with a single attacker, a competitive MMA fighter has a very high chance of surviving the encounter. He will often be physically more fit and mentally more prepared than his counterpart. But when a weapon is introduced or the number of attackers increases, the fighter’s chances of survival drop sharply, due to a tendency to engage when running is a better option. It’s not that an MMA fighter is miraculously fearless, but retreat is not an option in his training, so it may not occur to him when faced with a lethal threat. Also, ground-fighting techniques that work extremely well against a single attacker carry more risk against multiple threats.
As currently taught by most, unarmed self-defense often produces a fighter less physically prepared for the conflict (unless s/he has taken physical fitness as a personal goal) and using techniques that have often not been practiced to the dogged extent of a competition fighter. However, because retreat is programmed into their training as a go-to option, and because their training includes the notion of an armed attacker, a fighter from a good reality-based training school may stand a much higher chance of surviving multiple attacker scenarios than an MMA fighter. It is not as much about proper technique as proper tactics.
When we hear the term “street fighting,” we usually imagine some back alley strewn with broken glass and dramatically swirling newspaper tumbleweeds. In reality, there is no setting in which violence cannot occur. The highly variable nature of real-world violence has to be acknowledged. The terrain, lighting, available escape routes, and presence of others (friend or foe) all dictate the tactics used in a particular incident.
In MMA competition, there is very little variance in the actual setting of the fight. The competition area may be 16 feet or 30, but it is always well-lit. It may be round, octagonal, hexagonal or square, but the flooring is always level and free of obstacles. The barriers may be chain-link steel or tightened hemp rope, but the combatants are always confined. There is no escape route, and the population of the world is three, only one of whom is attacking you.
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| The world is full of vertical surfaces. Walls can be your best friend or worst enemy, so account for them in your training. |
It may seem odd, then, that I find more fault with much of the reality-based community than I do MMA trainers on the issue of vertical surfaces. In an MMA gym, the first thing you notice is that almost every wall is either padded or shrouded in chain-link. MMA fighters constantly work off the wall: back against the wall, attacker against the wall, on the ground at the base of a wall. You are taught that the wall is your worst enemy and your best friend. And the world is full of walls: hallways, store fronts, vehicles, trees, and furniture all present vertical surfaces that are very likely to come into play in a violent attack. Yet I currently only see this addressed regularly in high-level military and law enforcement training outside of MMA. I hope to see that change.
One way in which reality-based training does have the upper hand with regard to setting is in the use of improvised weapons. While an MMA fighter sees a stool as an obstacle to avoid, the reality-based fighter sees a shield or cudgel. More is on the table (including the table itself) for the reality-based combatant because his training allows for it. Training to use improvised weapons when available prevents over-reliance on the empty hands.
From the outside, it doesn’t seem like there is much at stake in a competition MMA bout. Often even the loser leaves the ring under his own power. Your life is not perceived as being at risk, and only occasionally are your limbs. But don’t assume that means the emotional and psychological factors of a bout are small. Fear, especially of performing poorly and disappointing peers and mentors in front of a massive crowd of strangers who may base a great deal of their opinion of you on the outcome, is enormous. These factors are magnified as your body keys up for the match -- this is a “fight or flight” scenario from which the flight option has been artificially severed.
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| The support of a team, combined with the fear of disappointing them, is one of the reasons the psychological and emotional responses a fighter feels toward violence can differ greatly from those felt in actual combat. Photo: author |
I vomited a few minutes before my first bout, and I know more experienced fighters who always have. Having other fighters around you to tell you this kind of thing is normal goes a long way in establishing a better understanding of the body’s reaction to stress, not as an abstract concept but as personal experience. Even if a fighter doesn’t win, he gains valuable insight into his own body and mind. This is an area in which competition excels.
Real-world violence doesn’t creep along, shouting warnings ahead of it. It happens extremely fast, causing the sort of emotional spike that can result in panic. The adrenaline, accompanied by fear, causes focused vision and a dampening of the sense of hearing known as auditory exclusion. Fine motor skill is lost and, in extreme cases, the body may drop any unnecessary cargo, which is a polite way of saying you lose control of your bowels. All of this is normal, but that doesn’t make it less terrifying at the time. If not properly understood, the memory of these actions can be a source of unwarranted shame.
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| Even staple moves from MMA, like the standing Guillotine Choke, can prove unsound if your opponent turns out to be armed. |
Fighters in the combat sports have always known and experienced these issues. Mental preparation and mindset are huge parts of competition fighting. The fact that fighters do not experience the extreme manifestations of stress experienced by victims of criminal violence may account for some of the misconceptions and guilt those victims later feel. It is important to remember that admonitions to “be a man” do nothing to override biology.
The industry of reality-based training, however, is making increasing headway in the areas of mindset, mental preparation, and understanding the body’s reaction to stress. Largely due to the publication of well-researched scholarly works such as On Combat by David Grossman, added to a foundation of earlier works like Jeff Cooper’s Principles of Personal Defense, the reality-based training community is addressing psychological and physiological factors of violence better than at any previous time in history.
There is a great deal that reality-based fighters can learn from competition fighters, and vice versa. While it is understandable for individuals to take pride in methods and techniques they have put in the time and effort to learn, we should never let that pride blind us to the advantages of other methodologies. In Part II, I will look at ways MMA fighters can adapt their training to defend against violence outside the cage, and how reality-based fighters can bring the skill and intensity of sport fighting into their training.
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Another great article by Mr White. If your not training in a realistic enviroment you are cheating yourself.
I have read BOTH of your recommended - great- books, and many more. At 65, I am not in the "fight or flight" mind frame. I think I am at the "kill or get killed" point. Jail and consequences are out of the door, once you reach certain age - mine happens to be this one. If you have the time and, or, budget, get one of the books written by Mr. Rory Miller. Right now I am reading Mr. Miller's "Force Decisions: A Citizens Guide..." and he is speaking about these same points. I recon an article is not enough space to offer much explanation, but I find it is better to state a point (whichever is) and not go too much around it.
This was well thought out & wrote. I know from my early days in the ring & on the street the fighting is not the same.
Thanks for the feedback, Gentlemen. Sam: I completely agree about training in a realistic setting whenever possible. Cecilio: "Meditations on Violence" by Rory Miller is actually on my desk right now, just haven't had a chance to get into it yet. Remember, with medical breakthroughs 65 isn't as old as it used to be; there are always consequences. Ernie: Nice to see another fighter who recognizes the gap between ring and street. Thanks again, see you at the next one. --Justin White
I was very pleased to read this article. In my 45 years I have only been in 6 fights with varying degrees of success or failure. It was a great help to me to hear that even professional fighters experience physical symptoms before a fight. Until now I thought it was my own "cowardice" that caused these things. Especially since I would rather find a way out than actually fight if possible. Flight also reinforces a self image of being somewhat less than manly at times. As I have gotten older that has been tempered with a more business like mentality of doing what needs done. The fear is still there, but I am more able to suck it up and get on with it. Are there any resources on managing the fight or flight reflex?
Howdy, JustDave. As far as resources for learning to manage fight or flight I recommend the following: Read "On Combat" by Dave Grossman (to better understand what your body will do under stress). Get together with a partner and role play/spar through some realistic scenarios, and visualize potential scenarios and how you could respond (so that if you are involved in another fight the "I can't believe this is happening" shock will be reduced). There are also great resources here on PDN to help you prepare. Thanks for supporting us. --Justin White
Great article, as a police officer of 20some years I have never had to fight someone in a "perfect" enviroment. Even if you try to apprehend a burglar in a mattress shop you will end up on the floor. The more you can wrap your head around worse case senarios in training. The better off you will be.
I agree that we need to all train for the worst case scenarios we are likely to end up in. Probability of the scenario will dictate how much time we spend training for it.
Interesting article. It must be noted that training that is appropriate for a LEO may not be so for for the average citizen. The goal as a LEO is to control and subdue. The goal for a citizen should be to evade and escape.
Well, Puppy, this articles isn't meant to address LEO vs Citizen training issues, but since you brought it up there are some things to bear in mind. Sometimes to "control and subdue" (an ambiguous phrase, for sure) an attacker is the Citizen's best option, such as when the presence of other vulnerable persons makes escape difficult, if not impossible. There are also situations when a LEO, undercover, off duty or grossly out numbered, may find it necessary to "evade and escape. It's the dynamics of a particular attack that will dictate the proper response. Having trained with law enforcement, civilians and the military I can honestly say that more often than not, a fight is a fight.