Rob Pincus

Good Samaritan Checklist

Rob Pincus
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Description

Keep this Good Samaritan checklist in your head as a script you can quickly run through in case you come upon a situation where you might be compelled to act on behalf of a stranger in the public space. If you have sufficient self-defense training and are prepared to defend yourself and your loved ones, you might also be capable of getting involved in a situation where someone you didn’t know prior to the event is in trouble and you might be able to help.

Three Questions

Being a Good Samaritan can become complicated, as this first-hand account illustrates, so before you take any action on behalf of a stranger, ask yourself these three questions:

1. “Do I really know what’s going on?” Make sure you are not about to interject yourself into a situation where the person you thought was the victim actually was the instigator. And don’t butt in on a situation that involves law enforcement, for example a plainclothes security or police officer engaged in their duties and you mistakenly think they’re the bad guy.

2. “Can I actually make this situation better?” You don’t want to put yourself into the middle of a situation that may de-escalate on its own, or one that hasn’t risen to the level where you need to intervene, or one that is now beyond your capacity to make it better.

3. “What’s the least I can do?” What is the minimal way you can get involved in a situation and influence it for the better? Perhaps standing at a distance and telling someone they’d better stop what they’re doing, or calling 911. Stay out of harm’s way and influence the bad guy to stop his actions.

The answer to question #3 may change as the scenario develops and the definition of “the least you can do” fluctuates.

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2 Responses to “Good Samaritan Checklist”

  1. Terry

    I second adding "be a good witness" to item 3.

  2. Shawn

    "The Least you can do" I've never heard it phrased quite that way but it makes complete sense. I'd also put with that "Be a good witness" too. Sometimes the best thing to do is nothing and be as observant as possible. Great checklist that I will certainly take to heart.

Let's talk about the Good Samaritan Checklist. Now, this is the checklist that I want ya to think about and have in your head as a script that you can quickly run by in case you come up upon a situation where you might be compelled to act on behalf of a stranger in the public space. If you've prepared to defend yourself and those that you care about, you might also be capable of getting involved in a situation where someone that you didn't know prior to the event was in trouble and you might be able to help 'em. But first, I want you to ask three questions. First. Do you really know what's going on? Make sure you understand exactly what's going on, you're not interjecting into a situation where the person you think is the victim actually started the scenario. Make sure that you're not interacting in a situation which involves law enforcement, maybe a plain clothes security officer, or a plain clothes police officer engaged in their duties, and you think that potentially they're the bad guy. So make sure you know what's going on. The second thing you're gonna wanna do is ask yourself, can I really make things better? You don't wanna put yourself into a situation that may deescalate on its own, that maybe hasn't risen to a level where you need to interject yourself, or a situation which is now beyond the capacity of you to make it better. So if you're involved in a situation, or you're witnessing a situation that you're not involved in yet where your interjection is only gonna get more people hurt or put more people in danger, then ya probably don't wanna get involved. The third question is, what's the least you could do? What's the minimal way you could get involved in a situation? Maybe just standing off in a corner and yelling, maybe just letting someone know that they're being watched, maybe pulling out your phone, calling 911 and saying the police are on the way is enough to get a typical predator to stop victimizing whoever it is that they're harassing. Maybe it's a verbal situation that hasn't gotten physical. You can tell people, hey, I've called the police, you guys need to knock it off. Keep yourself out of harm's way, maybe even keep yourself out a visual reference, and know that you have done something to psychologically affect the bad guy's interest in continuing to be a bad guy. Now, obviously, if the situation from there escalates, you may need to change what you're doing. And the answer to that question, what is the least you can do, might change throughout a scenario. You may find yourself having pushed into a physical confrontation, and then realize that you could now back off, the least you could do is stop the physical confrontation. For example, if you break up a fight, someone's being victimized, and the other guy runs away, it's not your job to chase that person down. You've done the least you can do. So let's go over that again. The Good Samaritan Checklist. Are you sure you know what's going on? Can you actually make things better? And what's the least you can do? These are three good questions to be prepared to ask yourself before you act on the behalf of someone else in a public space.
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